The Haus Where Stories Live
Writing fiction isn't about having everything figured out - it's about making room for ideas, emotions, & uncertainty to coexist on the page. This piece reflects on storytelling as a gentle, intuitive process shaped by patience rather than pressure.
There’s a particular moment that happens before a story begins.
Not the first sentence. Not the idea.
The pause - the small, almost sacred hesitation where you feel a story lingering on the tip of your tongue.
At Haus Reverie, I like to think of stories as guests. Some arrive politely, right on time, with clear intentions and neat luggage. Others knock at late hours, dripping rainwater onto the floor, refusing to explain themselves. Both deserve a place by the fire.
This is a space for those guests - where stories might be unfinished, uncertain, and strange.
Writing Is An Act Of Hospitality
Writing online, we typically talk about discipline and productivity. Word counts. Deadlines. Metrics.
And all of that has its place - but fiction begins somewhere softer.
Writing fiction is an act of hospitality. You’re making room. You’re saying: “You can stay here a while.”
When you sit down to write, you’re not demanding answers. You’re offering shelter. This is why cozy writing spaces matter. Not because of the aesthetic, but because comfort signals safety. And safety invites honesty. Stories, like people, rarely open up when they feel rushed or judged.
Hospitality is about attention; noticing what someone needs without forcing them to explain themselves. Writing works the same way. Your job - at least at first - is not to demand a meaning from the story, but to let it exist instead.
Many writers get stuck here. They think they need answers before beginning. Who’s the character? Where will the plot go? How will it all end? But fiction asks for patience before it offers a direction. It wants to settle in. To walk around the room and seek familiarity.
Hospitality is about allowing the story to be imperfect while it’s forming. Early drafts are not meant to be impressive. They’re meant to listen and observe what keeps returning, refusing to be ignored.
The Myth of the Perfect Idea
Writers hesitate because they wonder if a story has already been told. They figure they need a perfect premise. A clean arc. A clever ending, waiting patiently at the bottom of the page. Something that’s never been done before and will no doubt create an uproar in the literary community.
If you strip each story down to the bare bones, you’d realize everything has already been said before. But the key is that no one has told the story the same way. Some stories arrive fragmented. As a mood. A single image. A sentence that hasn’t fully formed yet.
These aren’t failures of imagination - they are invitations.
You don’t need complete clarity to begin writing. Honestly, writing fiction is often how clarity is found. You write toward understanding, not away from it. Some ideas only exist to lead you to better ideas. Some exist so you know what you definitely don't want to say.
Many writers will abandon ideas too early because they appear unremarkable on their own; a character without a plot, a setting without a conflict. But fiction is layered - what feels small at first, often deepens with attention.
A setting becomes familiar when someone moves through it.
A character sharpens when the reader understands what they want to achieve.
A premise grows teeth when it’s tested.
Expecting an idea to arrive fully formed is like expecting a house to exist before the foundation is poured. Let it shift, resist, and reveal what it cares about. The key isn't having the best idea, it's about choosing the one you're willing to stick with.
What repeats?
Notice what deepens.
Stay with it long enough for the story to become more than the idea that sparked it.
Understand this: the story you're meant to write doesn't look impressive at first. It looks mundane. Uncertain. A little unfinished.
That's not a flaw. That's the door opening.
Letting the Story Wander
There is a quiet power in allowing a story to wander. Not every piece of fiction needs to know where it’s going (that’s why I’m a pantser). Some stories explore rather than arrive; like taking the scenic route back home. They stop to look out the window and double back on themselves.
This writing requires trust.
Trust that the wandering has a point. Trust that the detours will reveal the characters. Trust that the meaning will appear. Allowing yourself to write without immediately editing, cutting, or explaining, gives the story room to breathe. You give it a chance to surprise you. And when a story surprises its writer - it will no doubt surprise the reader too.
Stories are not straight lines. What feels like a side quest in the moment, might become a central theme later on. This is why writing requires patience.
Trust your instincts as a writer. Sometimes you include a moment simply because it feels necessary, even if you can't explain why. Emotion leads before logic does - which is why it's also important for writers to be emotionally intelligent. The wandering reveals what the story truly cares about, not what you planned for it to care about.
Fiction as Emotional Architecture
Fiction is about feeling - not plot.
Stories are emotional architecture inside our brains. Structures built to hold grief, wonder, fear, and hope. The genre matters less than the emotional experience you create for the reader.
A mystery doesn’t work only because of clues; it works because of the emotional unease. Fantasy lingers because it lets us imagine what life would be like with magickal powers. Horror stays with us because of the recognition that life is not as safe as it may appear. Even the coziest story carries an emotional current beneath the surface.
When working on fiction, think about:
- What am I trying to get the reader to feel?
- What emotional room are they standing in?
- What do the walls look like? The light? The atmosphere?
You don’t need to explain these outright - the story will carry them quietly on its own.
Step inside the reverie—sign up and never miss a story, letters, and quiet magic meant just for you. No algorithms, no noise—just words waiting with the light on.
Write Through The Fog
Some days, writing feels like walking down the street at 4AM when the fog has settled in for the morning. You can only see a few feet ahead. You’re not sure if you’re moving forward or in circles. This isn’t a sign that you’re doing it wrong, but that you’re working on it.
Fiction reveals itself in layers (that’s why my novel is still in the works, 10 years later). You write one version just to get the story on paper. You write another version to uncover what you missed the first time around. Then the fog starts to lift. Slowly. Sometimes only after you’ve passed through it.
There’s a temptation to stop when things feel unclear. You might tell yourself that something won’t work out, so why bother? But uncertainty is not an obstacle - it’s a condition of creation. Who knows, maybe getting those words down will lead you to what will work out.
If you wait for confidence, you’ll be waiting forever. If you choose to write anyway, confidence often follows.
The Quiet Power of Revision
Revision has a reputation for being harsh, but it doesn’t have to be. Think of it like tending to a house after guests have stayed a while. You straighten the dining room chairs. You open the windows. You decide what's trash and what isn't. It’s all about listening more closely to what the story is trying to be.
Sometimes that means cutting beautiful sentences. Sometimes it means expanding moments you rushed past.
“Kill your darlings.” - Arthur Quiller-Couch
Sometimes it means realizing the story you wrote is not the story you thought you were writing - and allowing it to change. Gentle revision is an act of respect. It says: I see you now.
Become a reader and enjoy the story as-is before diving into the work as a writer. Revisions can bring up anxiety; you notice spots that don't seem so polished and vow to make each piece perfect before publishing. But polishing words until they've been stripped of personality can make your writing come across flat.
Why Keep Writing?
We write fiction for many reasons.
It helps us make sense of things that don’t have answers. To preserve feelings that don’t last. To explore versions of ourselves we can’t live out loud.
We write because stories offer a way to be both hidden and seen. In a world that moves quickly and demands clarity, fiction allows us to linger in ambiguity. It allows us to say: this matters.
But sometimes, in the middle of a sentence that won't cooperate or a project that's been tossed in the arctic sea, questions bombard an already stressed brain.
Why keep writing when it's hard?
When it's slow?
When no one seems to be watching?
Write to publish. Write to be seen. Write to succeed. None of these reasons are wrong, but they can't always carry you through the quieter stretches of work - the long middle where stories are fragile and motivation feels unreliable.
In reality, most people write for reasons impossible to summarize. We write because some thoughts have nowhere else to go. If they don't leave our head, we'll explode (trust me - I've seen it happen). Fiction allows us to confront truths that we can't yet talk about. It gives form to what would otherwise remain formless. Sometimes you keep writing simply because stopping feels like setting fire to one of the rooms in the haus.
There's also something about writing that grounds you. Sitting down. Paying attention to your thoughts. Returning to the page even when it all seems uncertain. It becomes a practice of listening rather than performing. Not every story written, will be shared. Not every piece will feel essential. The accumulation of this work matters though, even if some of it's private.
You keep writing because you believe a story matters, even small ones. Even unfinished ones, only read by yourself. And perhaps that's the answer.
You keep writing because this is a house you return to.
Because the door is always open.
Because there are stories inside that haven't left yet.
Creating a Personal Writing Ritual
There’s no set routine for writing, but a personalized ritual can help signal to your brain that it’s time for storytelling-mode. You could light a candle of your favorite scent. Or play one of Mozart’s masterpieces in a loop. Maybe you write at the same hour, every day, even if only for a moment.
A habit tells your mind: it’s time for imagination.
The goal is not just consistency for its own sake, but also for familiarity. When writing becomes a place you recognize, it becomes easier to return to - even after a long absence. Sometimes I’ll go weeks without writing a word, only to be drawn back in by the longing of an old friend.
The purpose of a writing ritual is to give yourself the space to feel comfortable. You are simply there to listen and respond. Small, repeated actions become cues for your body and brain to follow. Over time they begin to recognize those actions. As your relationship with writing changes, your ritual may change too. A good ritual evolves with you - adjusting to life rather than resisting it.
You don't need the fanciest tools and perfect conditions to write. You need only a small, repeatable way to say: I'm here now.
That's enough to let the stories find you.
An Invitation
Haus Reverie exists like a quiet invitation.
Write without rushing.
Read with intention.
Make space for the strange, the tender, and the unresolved.
If you’re here - you don’t need to prove anything. You don’t need to optimize your creativity or justify why you write. You need only to remain curious.
Stories are everywhere.
You don’t have to know where they’re heading yet.
Open the door anyway.

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